To My Confused Friend

A friend of mine asked me what I think about his current situation. His girlfriend dumped him for another guy and he's trying to move on with his life. He's currently trying to woo someone when all of a sudden his ex-girlfriend called him up and asked him if they could mend their previous relationship . He's confused. I dunno what's the real deal between him and his current 'almost friend' and his ex-girlfriend. I'm not even sure why he asked me such question. Maybe an affirmative action for a lame excuse to dump someone or simply the truth.

I am an expert wannabe so I said, "As a friend I’d ask you, do you still love her? Kse if you do, what are the chances are you willing to take? Have you forgiven her and willing ka bang tanggapin siya ulit? K’se if you did forgive her, you should be sure to yourself that you won’t be throwing what she did to you on her face. New life." Naks!

Well, he's confused. What can I say? He's confused. Period. I can't blame him.

With his current situation, it made me rethink with what I had with my old boyfie whom I had the longest relationship I ever had. An on/off relationship, he was my first boyfriend, he became my last, he WAS the love of my life and he was my childhood sweetheart. A big part of my past maybe that's why I had a hard time to let him go THEN. Let's see...

He was my first boyfriend when we were in HS for about a year but we have to break it off simply because we're too young.

Went to college, I met other good looking and wonderful guys whom I had relationships with.

Then we meet again. He's financially stable and managing their family-owned business/company while I was busy earning my second degree. We became an item again.

He's a guy you want to spend your time with. He's good looking, full of surprises, mysterious, intellectually stimulating, exciting and full of fun. So what is it that made me end it with him? We grew up separately within our relationship. Couldn't find common ground for both of us anymore.

Since I became a Christian when I was in HS I have grown so much spiritually while he, on the other hand, is not a Christian and cannot comprehend what it really is to become one.

So that's it. The end of story. He's happy now and I am happy where I am.

As for my confused friend, I hope you consider the following common bad dating beliefs before you decide to date again:

* You choose potential partners who are incapable of meeting your emotional needs.
* You think love has to be difficult, painful, and/or hard.
* You think your potential partner is going to fix whatever you don't like about yourself or your life.
* You believe time is running out on your search for love and/or your chance to have children.

Godspeed to you amigo!

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Global Stage

My boyfriend is taking the global stage and of course, he had inspiring words that brings beyond optimism with other countries.

"The United States and the United Kingdom have stood together through thick and thin, through war and peace, through hard times and prosperity, and we've always emerged stronger by standing together," Obama said next to a beaming Brown.

Optimism is such a good thing that brings a fresh relationship with Russia.

"We believe that the time has come to reset our relations, as it was said, and to open a new page," Medvedev declared at Obama's side.

Which can be a big help in establishing cooperation from Iran, North Korea and Afghanistan.

Hayz...my bf is really busy right now, you know. Gotta go and gonna make some tea for my love. Wink! Wink!

Source: Y! News

para

'ma, para ho sa tabi.'

ayan lagi sinasabi kapag dapat o gusto mo nang bumaba ng dyip. pero ano ba talaga ibig sabihin noon?

naisip ko lang...malamang galing sa salitang portuguese ang para na ang ibig sabihin, tigil (marami kasi akong katrabahong braziliano, ang salita nila portuguese).

sigurado ako, nasambit iyan ni magellan nung mga kapanahunang pinalilibutan na siya nang tribo ni lapu-lapu. galing si mang mags sa portugal, inikot ang mundo at gustong ikalat ang kristiyanismo. si rajah humabon at ang kanyang kabiyak na si Juana eh nagpaconvert, siguro dahil sa pagiging friendly nila kaya nila ito nagawa. kaya lang inutu-uto ni rajah humabon at datu zula si mang mags. kaya ayun, nabulilyaso siya. pumunta ba naman sa mactan. pero sabi, motibo rin kasi ni mang mags na maging kristiyano si lapu-lapu. eh ayaw, kaya ayun, nagpapara-para siya doon. kaya lang mukhang hindi naintindhan. nasaan kaya si enrique the-malay-interpreter-of-Fernão-de-Magalhães ng mga panahong iyon?

nowt: baka absent ka nung tinuro ito, Abril 17, 1521 namatay si magellan.

humachoo

masama pakiramdam ko. para akong magkakasakit. makati ang lalamunan, masakit ang ulo, mainit ang pakiramdam at paminsan-minsan may tumutulong sipon na parang tubig. singhot tuloy ako ng singhot habang nasa trabaho. aba naman kasi, yung intsik na katabi ko sa linya ay achang ng achang.

oo. achang. kse sabi niya 'achaa!' habang lumilipad sa ere ang libu-libong germs galing sa kanyang bahing. walang kaclass-class (aawww...) hindi man lamang marunong magtakip ng bibig.

naisip ko tuloy na iba-iba ang sinasabi kapag bumabahing (mga babae lang 'to).

mga braziliano: achiiing! (akala mo kuting na bumabahing, kyut silang tingnan)
mga intsik: achaa! (walang biro, ganyan talaga)

mga pinoy: achoo! (minsan talsik pa laway, pero hindi ako ganyan...may hanky ako, sosyal daw eh!)

asus! ma por nada sana ang sakit na ito.

not so distant future

what if humans can travel faster than light or in a more average way of looking, as fast as the speed of light considering when the actual speed of light in a vacuum is exactly equal to 299,792,458 metres per second (approximately 186,282.4 miles per second)? it would be like bending time space or literally stopping the time at that given moment. then time travel can be reconsidered?

to be faster than light is adding 1m/s to c (speed of light) that incises energy as it moves. but since light has no mass and requires energy, it definitely needs infinite amount of force. so how can we really move or travel faster than light?

this one would be like cheating: slowing down the speed of light (Cherenkov Effect). it is still one of those genuine possibilities that solid objects can travel faster than light. as possible as it is, we are in perennial verge of discovering that we can move faster than light as incessantly as improving of traveling faster than the speed of sound of 343 m/s (1235 km/h, or 770 mph, or 1129 ft/s) in dry air.

it has to be repeatable and measurable as the science dictates in utmost feasible way of disproving theories. nevertheless, proving theories can only mean of blowing holes to predicted theories.

enough said. Einstein is still right and it's evident to Zeus' thunderstorms.

blessed land

kailangan ko itong idagdag kasi hindi ako mapakali at pakiramdam ko makakalimutan ko ito.

sinuportahan ni Uncle Sam o ni G.W. Bush paid by the U.S. gov't ang pader sa may west bank kasi baka magkaroon ng World War 3. Nung WW2 kasi ang mga hudyo ang tinira ng mga Nazi sa paniniwala nila sa aryan supremacy, na ang pangunahing dahilan daw ay nagmula sila sa angkan ng mga taong galing sa Atlantis na hindi naman totoong may napakalaking ambag sa sibilisasyon na nagaganap sa mundo. kung baga eh, kung sino man ang kumalaban sa blessed land ay lagot.

sobrang pagtatangka ang nagaganap para lang hindi magkaroon ng WW3. parang kinukulong ang mga Israeli sa lahat ng maaaring mangyari...baka hindi na natin namamalayan nasa kalagitnaan na pala tayo ng WW3.

manood ka

Kapapanood ko lang ng You Don't Mess With The Zohan. Natural mente, tumawa ako nang tumawa. Paborito ko si Adam Sandler at halos lahat ng pelikulang pinagbidahan niya ay napanood ko na. Pero ang pelikulang ito ay kakaiba. Sabi ng ibang kritiko ito ay isang 'Israeli movie.' Sang-ayon naman ako doon. Ito ay sumisimbolo sa mga kaganapan sa pagitan nang ng mga Israeli at Palestinian. at ang napakalaking 'pagitang' ito ay ang napakalaking pader na umaabot ng 8 metro (25 talampakan) ang taas, mas mataas pa sa pader ng Berlin na 3.6 metro (11.8 talampakan). Isipin mo kung gaano kaatas ito at gaano kahaba, na hanggang ngayon eh, 'under construction' pa rin kahit na 650 kilometro (403 milya) na ito.

Sabi ang pader daw ay nandoon dahil na rin sa mga sumusuporta doon, at isa sa mga iyon ay si Pres. G.W. Bush, na hindi yata alam kung ano ang ginagawa, kaya ang resulta lalo lamang lumalala. Dati pa man, may batikusan na sa pagitan ng mga Israeli at Palestinian. Magbasa ka nang Bibliya, nandoon ang mga iyon. Si Sharon kasi, akala niya matitigil ang batikusan sa 2 panig sa pamamagitan ng konkreto. Tsk! Tsk! Tsk!

May iba't-ibang bersyon akong nabasa at napanood patungkol dito. Sa ngayon, sa pananaw ko, parang walang katapusang paghihirap ang nakikita ko. Sumisigaw na sila sa buong mundo at humihingi ng tulong. Pati nga ito, ang pelikulang ito, nagsasabi kung ano nangyayari sa kanila. Pati si Mel Gibson naisali kasi sa anti-semitic rant na ginawa niya. Ayon, natirador siya doon.

Pero may solusyon naman sa bandang huli, ang magkaisa at sama-samang buwagin ang pader na patuloy na sumisira sa kanila sa napakaraming aspeto ng kanilang buhay (politikal, ekonomikal, sosyal at etc.) KAYA nila buwagin ang napalaking pader na iyon. Maniwala ka man o sa hindi nabuwag na nila ang pader nang Jericho. Bakit hindi nila magagawa iyon ngayon?